Hello.. Inspired by Nature itself I came to realize the relationship between Humans and Nature to a larger extent. Its a very part of life but we neglect it for well-known reasons. Its absolutely not a philosophical piece of writing. But seeing around, how easily people lose their temper or the increasing cases of sexual harassment upon women I tried to look at it in more detail. We all must have learnt Force in school. If not don't worry, if you have used some kind of force at all.
Lets suppose you have to built a dam to check flow of 'x' mass of water. Its very natural that water will exert some force depending on its mass to flow out. Therefore in order to prevent this, the dam that you have build must have greater force (or strength), or else water will flow out bursting the dam. Same is the case with Anger. It forces you too act in a certain detrimental manner. And naturally it follows to 'control' anger requires more force (or strength) than to simply act upon it. So next time when you are faced with such situation try to control your anger since it actually shows how strong you are.
Aristotle said that to overcome your desires is more difficult than to overcome your enemies.
This makes second case of sexual desires, which if not controlled leads one to commit sexual crimes. I strongly feels practice of Bramhascharya (celibacy) from teen age is the remedy. Not being very idealistic, but our society needs to be transformed in such manner to encourage such things in children. Swami Vivekananda said to control your sexual desirer and to practice Bramhascharya requires more strength than to just fall into it. Though a feminist I'll not hesitate to accept that Manhood is synonymous to strength, if it goes in favour of women. We need to understand manhood lies in celibacy (for a time period) and not in just submitting yourself to your desires. Those who commit rape are actually weak and don't deserve to be called as Man. Rape is a manifestation of lack of strength and absence of manhood.
(If you find some appeal please share as you never know this may arouse 'real' manhood in someone and help them to conquer upon themselves..)
